HAILEY'S beats and bits

Home Gardening

2009-11-17T16:14:00.000-08:00

Cheap thrills, you may call it.

Home gardening gives me time to think. Reflecting, as I pull out weeds or trim the plants.

Makes me eager to see new flowers or shoots or fruits...

With this I look forward.

Looking forward to something gives excitement.

This leads to simple contentment.

Then there is peace. No matter how fleeting.

Isn't that what we all look for?

Home is a...

2009-11-15T15:23:00.000-08:00

place of we can take off our shoes and be ourselves.
Scratch where it itches; clutter stuff, pick up, argue, agree.

And most importantly, it is where we learn that imperfections of others and ourselves are acceptable.

Home is...

2009-11-12T05:12:00.000-08:00

...where simplicity begins.

Simple pleasures come from simple things.

Vase hand painted by my daughter. Flowers came from the backyard, left in the wild by previous neighbors.

Mine to behold.

What do you think?

Secure Instant Messaging

2009-11-12T04:59:00.001-08:00

Are you a Brosix IM Client? Have you tried this new technology?

We are trying to research on this new technology. News has it that Brosix has increased its customers three times in the last twelve months. We are not yet new customers of this but definitely will do our part in trying to investigate how this new technology has increased in the number of customers despite lopsided economy.

My husband is an I.T. professional and web designer also. He likes to learn new things about technology. It is very natural for him to read technical manual and programming languages books every day. Maybe he has heard of this. Maybe during one of his lectures to his classes or students he has already mentioned this topic. Since it safe, secure and updated I am sure he likes his students to explore this new technology. If he finds this really reliable he will surely recommend it to his colleagues or even his students.

Aside from the fact that he is a practitioner of the I.T industry, he is also taking up his Masteral Degree in I.T. so one of these days, I am sure he will encounter this new technology.

Baby No More?

2009-11-08T14:12:00.000-08:00

Sometimes wishes do come true.
Long ago, i wished my kids would grow up fast...

Now that they are bigger, I miss the sticky kisses, innocence and baby antics, too.
There are times I want to just say: stop growing!

Money, Money Money!

2009-11-07T07:40:00.000-08:00

Number game has always been my waterloo.

When blessings to decode and decipher figures were vested upon humanity I guess I was asleep. Or was I busy doing something else?

I have long accepted the fact that if numbers were to mathematician, words were to me.Just give me something to read anytime, I will be most happy to oblige. Just do not attempt to throw avalanche of number to me. I will be lost in the myriad of those codes. Then someone has to slap my face to bring me back to my senses.

That is why financial management has always been a challenge to me. That is why I always struggle with the figures and how to put together the numbers that come with budgeting and the likes.
Help is what I need. I searched for financial wisdom high and low. I am forever a blog reader of financial geniuses' blogs and sites out there because I am perpetually struggling to comprehend and manage the family's finances.
Now that we are down to one income household, I am always on my toes regarding finances. There are, however, moments now that I do realize I have improved a lot than before. Learning is a continuous process and if ever I win the grand price in iLASIK Video Contest I will be the most happy being!

Just For Fun

2009-11-05T00:39:00.000-08:00

Anyone who looked like this last Halloween?

How about this?

It was fun treat or tricking! Did you have fun , too?

Win Some, Lose Some but Cherish Well

2009-11-05T00:14:00.000-08:00

I lost my father when I barely nineteen years old. Sad but true.

I did not know at first that he died due to a bullet wound. I was away in the University earning my degree.

Being fourth in the brood of eight kids, I felt the blow and had the awareness of the loss.
Lucky me, I was able to spend my nineteen years with him. My youngest brother was only 9 years old then. He was barely aware of what was happening. He remembers the event, though. Now that he is 26, he spent most of his life with my mother.

The loss made me be aware how precious life is. It made me step back and prioritize relationships and cherish them as life-long treasure.

Cliche it may sound but it made me treasure more those people who matter to me. Most may not love me back or even value how I value them, but I will love them nonetheless.
Life after all is fleeting. Now you have arms that hold you, tomorrow you may not.

Missing a loved one? Try searching MyLife

Who knows you may find the precious one you have been looking for all along!

Family Writer at Work

2009-11-03T14:57:00.000-08:00

Who will ever tire of taking pictures of their kids?

No hands raised.

Not me, either.

And she always asks: "Why do you always take pictures of me?"

"Ahhh...I am busy, Mother. I am writing my story"

"This is going to be my story and I will sell it to Papa."

"Are you my paparazzi?"

Yes. Make that lifelong...

Eyeglasses Needed

2009-11-03T14:39:00.000-08:00

I am back in the blogging groove.
Thanks to hubby who got me the new laptop I am using currently. However, being online all the time has its downside too. My eyes are often exposed to to glare of the computer monitor.
I need to check the new arrivals so I can pick which one can help. $8 Prescription Zenni Glasses come good enough for me.
We will see.

Tearjerker Love Letter

2009-11-02T14:39:00.000-08:00

Found this letter inside his leather shoes.

My ten year old cleaned and brushed his shoes the night before work.

"Dear Daddy, today is a new day. Today, I will miss your morning hug and kiss. You will spend all the mornings and afternoons with your cubicle and students. You need to spend the entire day without us because you love us. You will also miss lunch time with us. Dad, have a happy and safe travel without us, but with God's protection. God bless. Love, Hannah"

Priceless. Agree?

image from: babyequipment.blogspot.com

Hopscotch!

2009-10-31T02:08:00.000-07:00

One of the most dwindling sights in this wired, techie world of ours - hopscotch by kids!

Rare are the occasions, when kids are out in the fields or open space. They are either in front of the television catching up with the latest shows or tinkering with the newest interactive gadgets no end.

With the busted TV remote for more than a week now, my kids are stretching their muscles and playing under the sun.

It is good for the body.
It challenges the spirit.
The sheer joy of interacting with real human beings in this modern world is one of the pleasures hopscotch brings!

See you in the next round as I search for music torrents.

Blood Giveaway...

2009-10-31T01:33:00.000-07:00

Our whole family trooped to our parish office, one day.
There was a bloodletting drive. My hubby donated blood.

Guess how much? 450 ml of blood was sucked out of his system.
Whatttt?

Well.
This has been his nth time to donate.
He says, God loves a cheerful giver...Especially to indigent patients.

Drop it Like it's Hot!

2009-10-28T16:08:00.000-07:00

Life is simple.
It is us who complicates things.
It is our wants that put us into traps and binds which stress us eventually.
If we follow the simple nature and cycle of things, we will have less of the complications.
It is either I am in the path of old age and sagacity or many experiences have taught me lessons already. Whichever is the answer, I choose the path of simplicity these days: less want, less problem.

This is our coin bank at home. This is where we drop our loose change and coins at the end of the day. Or even right smack in the middle of the day.

Just last week, I was planning to buy a bottle of softdrink or soda to quench my craving. I decided otherwise and dropped it here. Instead of buying 3 pieces of candy, my daughter dropped her coin here.

A coin will always be a coin. It's not much but what do they say: a stitch in time saves nine? It is because 6 months from now, we hope to spend a family vacation. Wherever our coins will take us, we will be more than happy to go.

Simple hope: trip. Simple solution: save for it!

If the Accor Hotels 3-Day Super Sale Asia Pacific will still be on, like right now then that would be a super help!

What A Weekend 2!

2009-10-27T15:27:00.000-07:00

The family retreat was super.

What better way to reassess life than with people who matter most to me...

It was time to plan, laugh, review, recall, cry, heal, celebrate, perform, enjoy, pray, eat, share and look forward to many years ahead!

Will I trade places with someone? Nah.

Can You Count?

2009-10-27T04:41:00.001-07:00

Just one shot.
Yet, how many colors do you see here?
Ain't nature wonderful?

A Drop in the Bucket

2009-10-27T03:36:00.000-07:00

Tremendous changes have happened to our family for the last four months. Aside from moving from traditional schooling to homeschooling, measures to be frugal were adopted. Let me count the ways...

We officially shifted from two incomes to one. That alone is a huge adjustment. From being a full time teacher, I now stay at home to teach my own children. Most people find this crazy. I do not. At least, not yet. What is more affective than to teach and monitor the learning of my own children? Who is more responsible in teaching lives I nurture? Me.

Being at home means I can monitor keep an eye on the family consumption: water, electric and food. Would you believe that even if we are home almost 24/7, our electric bill was cut into half? Constant turning off and unplugging of electrical appliances not being used helped tremendously.

With time in my hands, preparing and storing food veer us away from eating out. Not only that this practice is healthy, it also keeps our pockets guarded. Unlike when I was working, we were always rushing that taking out of food was more frequent than cooking our own.

Let me tell you more in later posts. I still need to research about baby formula.

What A Weekend!

2009-10-25T23:11:00.000-07:00

How was your weekend?

Mine was the most fruitful.

Our family spent a 2-night retreat out of town.

It was time to laugh, cry, heal, celebrate, perform, enjoy, pray, eat, share and look forward to many years ahead!

How about yours?

Join Me

2009-10-20T17:50:00.000-07:00

Blessings, everyone!

SO what was your morning blessing?

Endless, Borderless.

2009-10-19T05:16:00.000-07:00

Homeschooling rocks!

It spells freedom.

It means borderless learning.

Endless possibilities are spelled out every single day waiting to be explored.

There are gazzilion of things and explorations we can do aside from being tied down to the chairs from morning till late afternoon. Possibilities beckon in teaching my kids concepts they need to learn in the most fun or open-ended way. Life after all is not out of the textbook, right?

As of today, my daughter is still busy writing her story. Last I heard, the story she has been writing has reached 43 pages. I am even amazed how she approaches her writing in the most free flowing manner. As if it is so natural for her to write from her thoughts. Ballpoint pen in hand, she does it with ease. Right now, she asks if she can write online thru a blog. It's time to look for a reliable webhosting.

When basic skill building is done for the day, explorations begin. They look forward to this, thus they are motivated to do their basic skills using paper and pencil. Motivation sometimes falter but what am I here for? With prodding and constant reminder they do it nonetheless.

Baking, cooking, gardening, painting, sketching, tinkering with the computer, creating crafts, running around, selling, day camping and performing are just a few explorations they constantly pursue.

Now, that is true learning for me. Don't we all agree that experience is the best teacher?

Happy Moment, Proud Momma!

2009-10-19T04:57:00.000-07:00

My daughter Hannah won a contest.
She joined our Parish's on-the-spot poster making contest in the elementary students level. She won third place. She was so happy, she couldn't believe it when she heard her name being called.

Here she is when she received her award from the priests of our parish.

We were proud parents!!!! Teary-eyed we were when we witnessed the moment.

She got a cash prize and a certificate.

Mentor, not Dementor or Tormentor

2009-10-18T06:36:00.000-07:00

No matter how I deny it, Greek literature was one of my best subjects during my university years. It is not because I was obsessed with the Greeks. It did not start that way. It, however, ended almost that way. Blame it on my literature professor.

How did it happen? Let me count the ways.

First reason - she was animated. She moved and walked and talked non-stop while flailing her arms to all directions. Our eyes darted back and forth all through out the sessions. It was no 3D animation, it was a live one.

Second reason - she used vivid words. She enunciated adjectives to describe story characters as if Achilles or Hector were right next to my seat. She could make us believe that the gods and goddesses were alive and kicking.

Third reason - she was herself a voracious reader.

And there was not a dull moment.

Had I been given the chance, I could have taken another course under her tutelage. However, she left the university. Right now I have no idea where she transferred. But truly she mentored me how to love reading and the pleasures that come with it.

Well, let me try researching for her whereabouts. It wouldn't hurt to thank her for being such a good example or mentor, right?
Let me try using MyLife.

image from rhapsode.com

Prayer of all Families

2009-10-17T02:41:00.000-07:00

Let's believe that God is mightier and stronger than any typhoon.

Pray with me.

Family Trip: Weekend Market

2009-10-16T03:50:00.000-07:00

Last weekend was fun.

There was a weekend market 10 minutes walk from home.

Somewhere along the corner, authentic Malaysian food beckoned.
Yum. The spice was irresistible.

Organic herbs and other plants abound as low as $.50 per plant.

Fresh, fresh herbs ready for planting or cooking were up for grabs.

Crafts, fruits, bread and other produce seemed to call out: pick me up!

Blessings abound. Indeed. Have you got one, lately?

Tricks, Tweets and Treats

2009-10-15T08:08:00.000-07:00

Some hand sewing did me good. It felt stress-free and relaxed to do the monotonous needle work.

It was a refreshing break from the usual daily routine. Cause there are times that if I could pass the buck at home, it wouldn't hurt at least once in a while. But that is not a choice.

I felt free and pressure-free as i did the needle work free hand. After about four hours of work, with breaks in between, a blouse is ready to be worn. Since sewing is not my cup of tea, I am learning how to perfect the craft. Hey, Rome was not built in one day, right? So I am taking my time to learn.

Staying at home has its merits and downside. There are times I just want to have short breaks or tell someone to trick or treat me.
Speaking of Halloween, it is almost here. Yeah, time for the kids to dig into loots and goodies. I will still feel my way around if my kids would still love to do it.

AS techie as we all are now, I'm sure you can say trick or treat me on twitter!

Why not? That is totally possible.

Family Food for Less (2)

2009-10-13T06:53:00.000-07:00

Want this?

Just blanch this and add some spices, voila! Lunch or dinner is better with fiber like this.

It is defined here as: It is known in English as water spinach, and has many other names in other languages. It is found throughout the tropical and subtropical regions of the world; it is not known exactly where it originated.

Kangkong or river spinach contains beta carotene, Vitamin A, Iron, phosphorus and thiamin. Here’s a tip on buying kangkong, make sure you choose those with large, unblemished leaves that are deep green color.

Enjoy!

Buying Infant Formula?

2009-10-13T06:16:00.000-07:00

My sister just gave birth last month. It was quite an experience for her cause she had to undergo emergency surgery. Even if it was a happy one for all of us because we welcomed a new family member, she had to undergo close monitoring by her doctor. She needed full rest to recover from her child birth.
She named her baby Raphael which means "healer". We all liked doting over this tiny creation whom we consider as God's gift. He is such a charmer.
I was once in the same stage of child-bearing and nurturing infants. Having had babies in succession, I had to juggle work and life balance very carefully. It was a tough time but well worth the invested effort and time.
Being a working parent, I was not able to breastfeed that long. With hovering guilt and absence from home, I had to buy the best infant formula - if not the most expensive one.
Recently, I discovered that indeed there was no substitute for breast milk. For even the most expensive formula is not that nutritious as mother's milk.
Had I known there was not much difference in nutritional value between store brand formula to that of the expensive ones, I could have chosen the cheaper ones then.

What's Up with Our Family?

2009-10-12T19:32:00.000-07:00

Nail-polishing. That's the recent trend for the 3 girls. Signs they're into fashion?

Baking. Never goes out of trend in our house. Yours too?

Sugar overload here. Ahh. One way to reward ourselves. Feels good though if not too often!

Can you believe I started gardening? Whaatt? There goes the "brown thumb" again. Well, there's no harm in trying, right?

So what's up with yours?

Do I?

2009-10-10T08:56:00.000-07:00

Do I miss it?
Do I miss the hustle and bustle of work?
Do I miss the daily grind that I had for 12 years?
Let me think...

But it's difficult to answer "yes" when I see contented smiles like this one. Nothing beats the feeling of goodness when I hear pitter-patter of footsteps coming down the stairs with small voices ready to greet "good morning!"

Sometimes, I replay "what if's" inside my head over and over, while swirling my spoon in freshly-made drinks I can prepare anytime, instead of delegated break time.

There are still many "I wonders" replaying inside my head, however I keep myself busy with domesticity these days.

Whichever I choose, history will tell. Time spent with my family is priceless despite the anxiety that financial rewards I used to have, is put on hold. Well, who knows? I might have the lucky chance of winning the lottery. I have not really tried online casino, either.

Mail Came today from our 7-year Old

2009-10-06T16:06:00.000-07:00

This is the message for me today. Actually, a command is more like it.

This is her message for him- the Dad.

Need she say more?

Meeting the other Homeschoolers

2009-10-05T16:32:00.000-07:00

It was a wonderful experience for my kids to meet their fellow homeschoolers. Most traveled quite a bit just to meet for our regular field trip. It was tiring for the kids but a good chance for the parents to catch up on issues regarding homeschooling. First timers are quite a handful so, sharing concerns and issues was helpful.

A world map made of rice grains

We went to International Rice Research Institute's Rice World Museum. It is such an educational place to learn anything and everything about rice and the culture behind rice production. Since it is the seat of the world's rice research, we really had a wonderful time learning.
More to follow later. I still need to research about used cars.

Walking in the Woods on a Sunny Morning

2009-10-02T04:31:00.000-07:00

One sunny morning...we walked in the woods.

We had fun communing with nature.
And cherished the moments with God's creations.

So much fun...so much fun, loving Him!

Inspiration 101

2009-10-01T06:58:00.000-07:00

So I'm turning a year older in less than 24 hours.
Blessed.
Grateful.
Excited.
Are the words that can aptly describe the feelings of turning 36.
I got inspired here and hope to live it. Soon.
Happy Birthday to me.

Not-so-little Picassos Works

2009-09-14T17:24:00.000-07:00

The hands that painted these were little ones way back.

In fact they used to wiggle inside me.

Now they have grown and would soon be same sizes as mine.

How time flies...

And yes, one canvass is a reused material. That's a bonus, right?

Trickles

2009-08-20T08:03:00.000-07:00

It is not easy - to love others as myself. This means not less than and not more than, but as.

If I cannot even fully love myself, how can that love trickle to others?

Grace.

That is the saving grace.

Hope to be back.

Ressurected...earlier!

2009-04-06T23:19:00.000-07:00

I have not blogged for ten million years.
Busy is the four-letter word that can always be reasoned, so let it be.

So here are some pics from my little Picassos first attempt on canvas! Team effort from my three girls.
If this sells millions years from now... that would be the day!

Artsy Kids

2009-02-12T19:28:00.000-08:00

I bake at home.
Most of the time I sell what I bake.
Small time earning but it makes me do what I love to do.
Guess how it brings out my kids' creative juices?
See the pics?
My kids looovvvee to do arts.

Yummy Family Food for Less

2009-02-08T23:53:00.000-08:00

Just a quarter kilo of meat sauteed in garlic and onions then the vegetables (string beans and squash) came next, our family of 5 had two meals with this healthy and frugal recipe. After a cup of water, a dash of salt with pepper, few minutes of boiling in freshly-squeezed coconut milk...

Voila! Fresh, inexpensive food on our table.

Lessons Learned : Priceless (2)

2009-02-03T18:07:00.000-08:00

Lesson number 1. It's always enough. It's the "want" that's never enough.

Since I took my one year leave of absence from work, our income dwindled. Worse, the business my husband has been into since 2007, has not taken off that well. To put it simply: the income can put food on our table but never sufficient to send our kids to school. To make matters complicated, my blogging earning was slapped tremendously . Good thing my family/siblings always trickle down their blessings to us. However grateful, we know we have to work and really earn on our own because dependency is not an option.

Meticulous menu planning, basic goods buying, no impulse buys, our car never used, very rare eat-outs, all fancy things buying gone - we are still alive!!

Simple living can be done. It's difficult but it can be done. Doubly painful when I hear my kids comment: "why can't we be like this or buy this or get this?" There are however, explanations to everything. The trade of the simplicity: they all eat vegetables now, the older kids were never sick the entire year and they seldom ask for anything fancy. They know they won't be succesful, that's why.

Simple life is difficult in this material-driven world. Others will always have better life compared to ours, but isn't that a fact of life? Now, I always ask myself: is it a need or a want?
Hopefully, I will be better in money management later. That is one lesson I was taught by our situation.
More details to follow.

One Windy Afternoon...

2009-01-30T01:01:00.000-08:00

I was the photographer of these people who matter most. Love this.

Lessons Learned: Priceless!

2009-01-28T03:05:00.000-08:00

Poised to receive another new year, I have been into a lot of introspection. Deep thoughts scoured my usual passive state. This is quite off-track because I have never been into this reflective mode before. Is this a sign of mid-life crisis? Or is it for the reason that I am leveling-up in life learning? Whatever, it was a never a walk in the park. But hey, nothing worth having is ever easy to attain, right?

Looking back the past year, I just learned the one of the greatest theories in Physics - for real, on my face kind of deal, that is: for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction. Translated: decisions I make affect other decisions thereafter - good or bad.

Seriously, it was a year of uncertainties and "standing still". Except for my kids' tremendous growth -physically and in wisdom, the year that passed was unexplainable beyond words or belief. I felt I was always walking on eggshells, on tiptoes...hands up and going to unknown destination blindfolded! It may sound hilarious to some or illogical to many, but I have no idea how our family carried it through. 2008 passed by, with so much that happened that can be summed up as tremendous, humongous life-changing lessons.

Watch out for the details.

photo from: scienceportal-one.org

Have You Ever?

2009-01-25T16:22:00.000-08:00

Kcee, thanks! She tagged me with this fun meme. It lets you get to know the person who tagged you more, and you get to share something about yourself as well.

1. Have you ever been on TV?
Yes, locally though.

2. Have you ever sung in public?
Nooo. Would you like tsunamis to come ashore? Not singing please....
3. Have you ever dyed your hair blond?
Nah. I am mighty proud to be Asian - and with long black hair.

4. Have you ever eaten frogs' legs?
Yes. I have eaten twice. Once was in the Exotik Resto in Laguna. Tasted like chicken.

5. Have you ever received a present that you really hated?
No, i love opening gifts.

6. Have you ever walked into a lamp post?
Not yet!

7. Have you ever cooked a meal by yourself for more than 15 people?
Yes, I have cooked for a party!

8. Have you ever fallen or stumbled in front of others?
Yes. More than twice, i guess.

9. Have you ever done volunteer work?
Definitely. Reading to indigent children and visiting orphanages to give away gifts, working for a non-profit with many outreaches for twelve years.

Arlene and Rose, will you be willing to do this fun meme?

Furnitures I like

2009-01-22T15:53:00.000-08:00

Well, everyone dreams of better things in life. Better finances and better lifestyle are just those on our list all the time.
No one can resist the picture of spending sunny mornings lounging in your own patio furniture , in your very own home and sipping your freshly brewed coffee while waiting for bagels to be served for breakfast, right?
I, for one relish on the idea that I can one day enjoy life under patio umbrellas relaxing while awaiting my bank account to accumulate interest in exponential level.
Well, that is just fantasy.
For now, I need to do the laundry and work on my online tasks later.
Incidentally, I came across a site online which offers hard-to-resist wicker furniture which will really make my fantasy completely picture perfect. Products and collections are of different styles, forms, designs and quality. The site is such an interactive one that choosing your own preference and style is such a breeze. What is assured, though, for every kind if the comfort and sturdiness each designs offer. Details and views of each furnishing is readily available thus navigating the site to pick your choice is such a walk in the park. And can you believe post-services are also offered to cater to their customers online. No sweat in getting yours, right now!

Think of the Postman...and the Jeepney

2009-01-14T18:14:00.000-08:00

Come hail, high water or drought the postman delivers the mail. Not to mention the dogs running after them, sometimes.

If I think and work like a postman, things aplenty will be done. What is it really that needs to be done, huh? There are actually gazillion things I do. Most are out of necessity and responsibility. Now the big question: What is it that I want to do, not necessarily I have to do?

Right now, my frame of thoughts is like that of a jeepney. Surely, it is made from post-war scraps/surplus. Analogize I make, I need to pick up the pieces where I left off to recreate my plans, again. Again? Yes, again.

So is it goodbye to my 12-year teaching career? Is it logical to leave what I have been doing for more than a decade?

I still have two months for think, re-think and truly ponder on these thoughts.

Is it Possible?

2009-01-10T06:56:00.001-08:00

Is it possible to do something without objectives?
Is it possible to experience anything without premeditated goals in mind?
Is it possible to do a thing or two for others devoid of intentions?
I doubt.
Most of the things I do are defined by my intentions.

In fact, I AM defined by my intentions.

What about you?
Why do you do things?
What defines you?

Forgive me, but I have this uncanny past time of thinking what others do not usually do so...

Right or Wrong - Neither.

2009-01-05T06:28:00.000-08:00

With three mounds of laundry and a dusty house, I still decided to blog. They won't complain, anyway. Ever.

Deep within the recesses of my gut feelings, I do feel excited upon the onset of this year. Last time I felt this way was months before I got pregnant with my littlest one. I knew something was awaiting me. Only to find out it was "someone" after all. That, however, will never happen again. I was done giving births at 28 years of age.

Logically, I cannot pin down the reason for this excitement. I know there is something in-store for me/us in the next months or so. Laugh if you may, but feelings are neither wrong nor right. What I do about how I feel is what will dictate the morality of it. Agree?

The optimist that is me, chooses to anticipate whatever awaits.

Have you ever felt this way?

8 is enough!

2009-01-01T06:44:00.000-08:00

My Mama.

At 67 my Mama stands 4'11" and weighs about a hundred pounds or so. She gave birth to 9 children and raised 8 of us (one died upon birth). Although a widow for 15 years now, she was able to send all of us to the state University to earn our degrees.

Here we are now.

My Mama, in the middle of her 8 grown children. Me (Hailey), third from the right (New Year 2009)

At my sister's wedding, Mama fourth from left. Me (Hailey) second from the right. (Dec 2008)

With Biases.

2008-12-19T06:39:00.000-08:00

Have you ever heard someone uttered regrets on his or her deathbed which goes something like: "How I wish I could have spent more time in the office or at work than I did."?

It will be the weirdest thing of all, should I hear such.

Time. It is spent.

Flashes of what if's come to my mind. What if I did not choose to spend my time at home like I do most of the time? What if I chose spunky stilettos and power suits instead of flip-flops and my house dresses? What if I chose to beat the metro traffic, the rat race of the corporate? What if I chose to be in another path except the domesticated one which I have? Would I be richer? Would my kids be kids of richer parents? Maybe.

Dang. That would be awesome, right?
What is lovelier, though, is not what other people will see or observe, right? My life is not that rosy one like that of laundry detergent commercial over TV , but all I know is my time passes with:

ten feet in a bed, at one time
screams because of tickling
noisy dinner table, nightly!
arts in progress scattered on the floor, with daily doses of genre!
question from a five year old which goes: "if God is all-good then why did He create the devil?"
picnics anytime
sticky kisses
googling together for science lessons
karaoke time with kids, off tune via youtube.com
cries because of bruises for running around
long walks and biking then more bruises
tight hugs and unwashed faces in the morning ready to narrate "bad dreams"
more questions like: "Who created God?" "Did God create Himself, how?"
"Mommmy, we are out of shampoo!"

Pardon the biases, but by the way, I am poorer than most of those who are reading this. Downright less objective than most of you all.
Because I chose to spend my time, empty wallets and all, with those who make me this subjective.

Why God Made Little Girls?

2008-12-13T07:55:00.000-08:00

God made the world with

towering trees, majestic

mountains, and restless seas.

Then paused and said,

It needs one more thing....

someone to laugh and

dance and sing.

To walk in the woods and gather

flowers....to commune with

nature in quiet hours."

So God made little girls with

laughing eyes and bouncing curls,

with joyful hearts,

and infectious smiles,

enchanting ways and

feminine wiles.

And when He'd completed

the task He'd begun,

He was pleased and proud

of the job He'd done.

For the world, when seen

through a little girl's eyes

greatly resembled Paradise.

(poem from here)

Time Flew...

2008-12-11T07:10:00.000-08:00

At one point in my married life, I had my three kids all under the age of five. I was young and working full time then. It was a tough time. At the back of my young mid-twenties mind then, I was always wishing that time would fly and my kids would all grow up so as not to be too dependent on me.

Today, as we were all glam up while we attended my sister's wedding I just realized how my kids have grown - taller, bigger and way too on their own.

I just realized my wish came too soon. Time flew and they grew! Soon, they will be all grown up for real. It is really a treasure to invest time being at home and with the family for time does not return.

Web Hosting, Anyone?

2008-12-11T06:10:00.000-08:00

We are a family with internet dependent life. Every single day, we access the internet for our daily living. More than just extracting information and new knowledge, we rely on the internet for the source of our financial support. Let me tell you why.
You see, my husband is a web developer, as well as, web designer. His life is all about surfing the internet for every detail necessary for him to keep up with recent trends and technology-related information. Thus, day in and day out he is in front of his computer, searching for reliable webhosting for his clients and prospective costumers. As a person who needs to be updated with reliable webhosting, he looks for the best packages that are economically sound, yet dependable enough that will not put him in bad situation while giving the best services for his patrons. Since there are always new trends and offers that come along, he has to be very meticulous with the overall packaging so as avoid mishap.
In my case, I am also in constant look out for different ways I can help my husband. As a blogger, I also need to be updated for new facts about blogging and different news related to blogging.

The Oscar With No Trophy

2008-12-07T07:15:00.000-08:00

Manny Pacquiao won over Oscar dela Hoya.

I am overjoyed.

As millions were tensed that it was a mismatch, Manny gave all he could and won the fight. It was not about height or reach or weight anymore. The fight was about the will and motivation to win.

And Manny Pacquiao won.

Bravo, Manny. You are one fearless fighter - you neither felt intimidated nor inferior to anyone not - even to a decorated, overrated man like De la Hoya.

I am one proud Filipino today.

(first 2 photos from http://forum.philboxing.com)

Because I Am A Fan

2008-12-03T15:05:00.000-08:00

Show your support.
As he waves our flag again, support him here!.

Jacket Please...

2008-12-03T06:31:00.000-08:00

So, how did your day go? Mine is was quite full and busy. Despite rain and a cold front here in our place, my day came and went , with hands full doing the usual stuff for my family. Dreary is the right word to describe the weather today. However, that is more of a pathetic fallacy than a complete description of my day.
I woke up quite early to send off hubby to his current professional commitment. He had to be in his appointment at around 6 in the morning. Rain was quite non-stop and the cold front had elevated my colds to the highest possible level. I am like a walking clogged nose or vice versa. I might need 5.11 Tactical Jacket, it is tough enough to ward off the coldness or flu coming up!
By 7 am my eldest prepared for her school. I had to wake her, fed her heavy breakfast and after bathing and dressing up, off she went to school. Since she is such a big girl now, she went to school by herself - which happens to be five minutes away by walking.
Alone at last, I was able to browse through my mail and hopped to other blogs. Coffee kept me company with the non-stop rain outside - it was perfect for introspection.
Cleaning up the house was the first thing I did. Dusting and wiping were the tasks that needed my attention. After breakfast, I cooked food for my other girls, took my bath and got ready to leave for work. I spent breakfast with my two other girls then left them to do their own activity of choice. I left to tend to the business my siblings and I set up.
After three hours or so, I came home and had lunch with my girls then spent time with them in the house while we did some homeschooling activities.
When hubby came around six in the evening, dinner was shared while off to work I went again.

MY Baby is A Little Lady

2008-12-02T17:07:00.000-08:00

Happy birthday to my darling girl Frances Maridel.

At eleven, you are now our little lady. God bless your journey to this life.

Your Daddy and I are so blessed to have you: God-fearing, healthy, voracious reader, and respectful to others.

I pray that you live up to your name which means "free" but never forgetting the values of both your Lolas (grandmothers) Delia and Norma (thus MARiDEL) have: strength in characters and passion for a well-lived life.

What Gives? I Wonder...

2008-11-29T22:37:00.000-08:00

Is your life as peachy as what others appear to have in blogland?
Mine is not.
And some of you might agree with me. And no matter what I do or don't, life will always have hitches.
Plans do not materialize as they were conceptualized.
People around do not react as we expect them to do.
When we look for some things which are constant, changes happen - and are never the same again.
Moments fade and mood changes thus life is not as rosy as what it is supposed to be.

What gives?

Holiday Treat from Zenni!

2008-11-29T21:27:00.000-08:00

Have you visited the popular online eyeglasses shop that sells as low as $ 8 Complete Rx Eyeglasses? If you are in need of eyeglasses there are even Holiday Glass Frames from Zenni Optical. Isn't that cool? There is nothing more fashionable this season than to grab a pair of eyeglasses that match your holiday outfit!You will absolutely like the idea of spending the holiday with outfits that match your frames!

Thankful, Grateful...Read my List!

2008-11-27T17:04:00.000-08:00

for a Godly, (vice-free) imperfect husband who loves the imperfect me - truly a rare species these days...
again, hubby who believes that together we make "a powerful team" with no ifs and buts;
my Mama whose presence is enough
three pairs of arms (of my girls) that hug tight and assure me that life is going to be fine
for family to come home to every night, rain or shine.
for my siblings - come hell or high water I know they will be around
noisy dinner table
little one's head when she looks up to me to ask something
loud voices in the house that perennially ask: "Where's Mommy?"
tough shoulder of hubby to sleep on at night
smiles of people around me
grace...grace...from God for an unGodly person that is me
celebrations of life: birthdays, weddings, Christening, get-togethers because the best thing in life is, life itself!
good health
work
friends who comment here
little hands that hold my shirt while walking down the street: a little child needs me!
my washing machine - very loyal service indeed
almost empty ref - because it reminds me that reward is from hard work.Period.
never empty wallet (even if it just contains a single peso many times) then a blessing comes again!
Aling Puring, our very considerate landlady. God bless her always.
my in-laws because they raised my husband to be the prson I will be with for the rest of my life
clean water when i open the faucet
healthy, happy and expressive children of mine...

How about you? What is on top of your list?

Awards, Gifts and More!

2008-11-24T05:18:00.000-08:00

Nancy, you are such a dear to give me these two awards! Thanks...

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Vannie, thanks so much for the thoughtfulness! I really heart this friendship badge!

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"And lovely are the blossoms
That are tended with great care,
By those who work unselfishly
To make the place more fair.
And, like the garden blossoms,
Friendship’s flower grows more sweet
When watched and tended carefully
By those we know and meet.
And, if the seed of friendship
Is planted deep and true
And watched with understanding,
Friendship’s flower will bloom for you."

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Passing this one to Nancy, Arlene, Liza, Kcee, Mari, Rocks and Shawie

Ahhh...Want This?

2008-11-23T18:36:00.000-08:00

How much will you pay for this mouth watering Chicken Sisig? A concoction of marinated shredded chicken meat with garlic, onions, red bell pepper, soy sauce and black pepper then served sizzling on a hot plate with egg on top plus a cup of rice?

Decide.

Heartwarming

2008-11-19T22:29:00.000-08:00

God must be smiling from ear to ear in heaven with this prayer. I found this written on a piece of paper atop our altar table at home.

I typed this as it was written:

"To the Father to the Sun and to the Holy Spirit Amen. God pls give me food God give mercy guide me God Pls control me God Lord give me many angel. Father the Sun and the Holy Spirit Amen."

My little girl instructed everyone not to remove the paper from the altar.

Ahhh.
Tugs my heart.
Among the gazzilion things I did wrong or did not do right, there is one thing I have done: taught this little one how to pray.

Parenting Manual Needed (part 6)

2008-11-16T07:46:00.000-08:00

Inside the church during a solemn mass.

Me:(Whispering) Hey little one, you have to behave. We have to listen to what the priest is saying.

6 years old Kid 3 : (Not whispering) Okay Mom.

Me : Thanks!

After 5 minutes or so started to dance and sing.

Me:(Whispering) Shhh. Quiet please...

6 years old Kid 3: Why?

Me:(Whispering) Because we are not supposed to sing out loud here.

6 years old Kid 3: But how come the choir does?

Whoa.

Just One Moment, Please.

2008-11-12T06:18:00.000-08:00

Let me be one proud stage Mommy for a moment - but for the nth time.

What the heck, I like to brag about my kids.

I think they are worth the bragging. LOL.

Life in A Bowl

2008-11-09T23:53:00.000-08:00

My life is like a bowl of spices. Everything comes naturally - in due time.

No words describe what is in between too exotic or too sour or too spicy flavor ;but there is a taste to it definitely. Nothing predictable, though.

No mixture is ever too perfect. There is, however, flavor and color to it. It is up to me how to accept and react to the taste.

What about you? To what do you liken your life?

Giggles and Pics

2008-11-05T08:23:00.000-08:00

Things go wrong so that we will be able to tell the difference when things are right. But I ask: when will things be ever perfectly right? Clueless.

Despite how wrong and skewed things are with me, I still have these camera-hungry kids to come home to!

See? Priceless poses!

In sleeping attires or not, we are ready to strike our poses, with endless giggles!

Meet me, (the Mom) and my 3 giddy girls: Madel, Hannah and Erika!

What Does TV Watching Build Anyway?

2008-11-03T07:02:00.000-08:00

Lately, we have been lessening our television time at home. My children are into the "Reading Challenge" we agreed on. The Reading Challenge parameters are the following: My two older kids ages 8 and 9 can choose any book (fiction or non-fiction) with more than 30 pages. They are given 1-2 weeks to read the book of their choice and once they are done with their reading, a reward awaits them. Simple rewards such as an hour or two in the computer with educational games, a movie trip, trip to a crafts store for our art projects or an eat-out treat. Simple rewards yet beneficial for them.

So you may be asking: "Why are we lessening our TV time?" My answer is:"Why not?" There are just basically three reasons why we decided to lessen our TV time:

* Watching TV builds more insecurity. What do most TV ads promote about self-concept, anyway? For the female population, the ads rampantly promote vanity and true colonial mentality. Unless females have long straight or colored hair, flawless white skin from use of whitening products or slim figure from weight-reducing formulae, most likely they are part of the misfits. Beauty is, more often than not, equated with commercialized vanity. Dove™ must really be awarded for their campaign about real beauty, because it gives another perspective of being beautiful.

* TV time means "no communication time". In our home, if everyone watches TV, no one talks at all. But have you ever noticed that whenever someone talks, another will say: "Quiet! I cannot understand what the character is saying!" Strange, right? We have time to listen to the character, yet we cannot afford to listen to another member of the household! More than that, if someone walks around and blocks the view of the TV, most likely the watching is interrupted, the protestations from the viewers cause commotion such as:"Please go away!" or "You're blocking my view of the TV!"
We decided that if the TV is turned off, we are more aware of the human dimension and interaction in our home, which is more important. So less TV time, means more interaction.

* As parents, we always want to choose what is best for our children that include only three concepts: what is true, what is good and what is beautiful. However, TV sometimes presents the opposite if not the distorted versions of these. Product endorsements are so rampant that if we all listen to what they are saying it is practically the same: to buy or spend. It, sometimes, feels that we should always have the money to spend otherwise we are out of circulation. This is not always the case. There are alternatives, in fact, way too many.

As they say: "If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen." We are doing that for now by lessening our TV time to really reflect of what is really true, good and beautiful, not the boob tube way!

Original article by the author first published at Pinoy Moms Network Parenting category, September 14, 2007. )

Eyeglasses the Suit My Budget

2008-11-03T05:37:00.000-08:00

I am starting to feel the effect of economic crunch these days. Nothing seems to be in the category of good news in terms of financial issues. Prices are higher and wages are the same. So what is the usual woe of a work at home mother like me? If I can only shout the line "show me the money!" everyday, I would!

Different penny-pinching moves and frugal hackings are the only strategies that occupy my mind every single day of our lives lately. Every penny saved goes a long way, I guess. Every opportunity I have to go online, I am always looking for one hundred and one ways to stretch the family budget. I am so glad there are blogs and sites that are truly helpful in my quest for this penny-saving mode I have.
Due to this constant reading and searching for articles about frugal ways, I am having double vision and eye discomfort. I feel I spend too much time online that I need new eyeglasses.
For a frugal mother like me, eyeglasses, from Zenni Optical suits my budget and fancy. I have no extra worry for additional cost because they are very affordable and available online.

Think About This

2008-11-01T08:57:00.000-07:00

The greatest struggle is to be always relevant.The greatest fear, is be otherwise.

Those are my thoughts right now. Agree? Are you relevant to someone? to whom?

As a parent, a wife, a sibling or a friend - to anyone or someone: relevance matters. Without such, my existence pales.

God, however, loves.

This life and beyond He has a laid-out plan for me. Relevant.

Which makes me relevant, eternally.

(photo from www.tightlinelinks.com)

What Am I Up To?

2008-10-31T07:11:00.000-07:00

I love to read.

When I have time, I read anything. I started with simple books and poems. Then I progressed to more complicated plots.

Recently, I just finished Father Jocis Syquia's book, Exorcism Encounters with the Paranormal and the Occult. It is a very interesting book. One of the best lines I read here is: "The sad thing right now is many in the Catholic Church either deny the existence of the devil or tend to see him as someone that cannot interact in a major way in man's day to day life."

In simple terms, deception can also happen, right?

Now I started reading The Faith Explained by Leo J. Trese. I am still at the beginning part.
My favorite lines so far: "An ant has more right to criticize an Einstein than has a man with his limited intelligence to question the infinite wisdom of God."

More Party Pics!

2008-10-29T07:08:00.000-07:00

My handsome brother Wilord, me (in sleeveless top), my older sister Amabel, and my daughter Madel

My Lady Erika, frowning this time.

Me! (Hailey: standing, third from left) in the middle of
the 5 of my 7 siblings: Em, Wilord, Amabel, Marhlie and Buen!

My Medieval Kids

2008-10-26T18:07:00.000-07:00

We gave homage to a king.

Enjoyed an afternoon of merriment, music and grand company.

With peals of laughter

And mirthful time,

It was a wondrous moment, indeed!

meet my lady Erika...

the king and his Court of Knights and Ladies

kiss the hand of Countess Madel...

4 Ladies and a Musketeer met inside the king's Castle

My lovely, lovely Dame Hannah!

Truly resplendent were the moments!

Alphabet Questions: Who Am I Tag?

2008-10-23T23:45:00.000-07:00

Arlene, here is the tag. Thanks!
A. Attached or single? Attached (married)
B. Best friend? Yes.
C. Cake or pie? Moist Chocolate Cake with Coffee
D. Day of choice? Sunday. Relaxed family time.
E. Essential item? Cellphone and Wallet
F. Favorite color? Blue and White
G. Gummy bears or worms? Gummy bears
H. Hometown? Laguna
I. Favorite indulgence? Foot spa with pedicure...ahh soothing.
J. January or July? January, new year and new beginnings.
K. Kids? Three girls
L. Life isn’t complete without? My family and friends.
M. Marriage date? June 14.
N. Number of magazine subscriptions: online included? 1 only
O. Oranges or apples?Apples.
P. Phobias? Closed, cramped spaces.
Q. Quotes? The best thing in life is life itself!
R. Reasons to smile? happy memories with loved ones
S. Season of choice? Summer
T. Tag 5 people. Vannie, Kcee, Liza, Rocks and Nancy
U. Unknown fact about me? I can move my ears!
V. Vegetable? any will do except saluyot.
W. Worst habit? waking up late, but not that late.
X. X-ray or ultrasound? X-ray
Y. Your favorite foods? very plenty
Z. Zodiac sign?Libra

Long Way

2008-10-22T08:56:00.000-07:00

Dang.

I saw her instantly.

A personal bodyguard stood right next to her.

Clad in white top and jeans, she seemed to appear so simple from afar.

As I got closer, of course it was a different impression.

The Bally bag she carried is a proof that there was more to the white shirt and jeans.

Her personal driver was an earshot away from her; awaiting any errand she would ask any moment.

She has come a long way.

She spent almost all morning with us with the same chatter and warmth that she usually has: which amazes me for real. There was not a tinge or hint that I was sharing light moments with a corporate president - who she really is.

After more than two hours or so, she left aboard her Suburban .

My sister.

She has come a long, long way. She is an epitome of a successful, hardworking businesswoman.

I smiled.

Dang.

Who says life is fair? Well, I will tell you when I have my own bodyguard. LOL.

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2008-10-20T19:47:00.000-07:00

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Why God made Mums...

2008-10-20T08:50:00.000-07:00

Answers given by 2nd grade school children to the following questions.

Why did God make mothers?
1. She’s the only one who knows where the sticky tape is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.

How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a lot of stirring.
3. God made my Mum just the same like he made me. He Just used bigger parts.

What ingredients are mothers made of?
1. God makes mothers out of clouds and angel hair and everything nice in the world and one dab of mean.
2. They had to get their start from men’s bones. Then they mostly use string, I think.

Why did God give you Your mother and not some other mum?
1. We’re related.
2. God knew she likes me a lot more than other people’s mums like me.

What kind of little girl was your mum?
1. My mum has always been my mum and none of that other stuff.
2. I don’t know because I wasn’t there, but my guess would be pretty bossy.
3. They say she used to be nice.

What did mum need to know about dad before she married him?
1. His last name.
2. She had to know his background. Like is he a crook? Does he get drunk on beer?
3. Does he make at least $800 a year? Did he say NO to drugs and YES to chores?

Why did your mum marry your dad?
1. My dad makes the best spaghetti in the world. And my Mum eats a lot.
2. She got too old to do anything else with him.
3. My grandma says that Mum didn’t have her thinking cap on.

Who’s the boss at your house?
1. Mum doesn’t want to be boss, but she has to because dad’s such a goof ball.
2. Mum. You can tell by room inspection. She sees the stuff under the bed.
3. I guess Mum is, but only because she has a lot more to do than dad.

What’s the difference between mums and dads?
1. Mums work at work and work at home & dads just go to work at work.
2. Mums know how to talk to teachers without scaring them.
3. Dads are taller & stronger, but mums have all the real power ’cause that’s who you got to ask if you want to sleep over at your friends.
4. Mums have magic, they make you feel better without medicine.

What does your mum do in her spare time?
1. Mothers don’t do spare time.
2. To hear her tell it, she pays bills all day long.

What would it take to make your mum perfect?
1. On the inside she’s already perfect. Outside, I think some kind of plastic surgery.
2. Diet. You know, her hair. I’d diet, maybe blue.

If you could change one thing about your Mum, what would it be?
1. She has this weird thing about me keeping my room clean. I’d get rid of that.
2. I’d make my Mum smarter. Then she would know it was my sister who did it and not me.
3. I would like for her to get rid of those invisible eyes on the back of her head.

Funny, right? Got it here.

photo from www.faniq.com

Friday Fill-Ins

2008-10-18T00:51:00.000-07:00

1. Follow the golden rule and life becomes way better.
2. Extra shirt is something I always take with me on vacation.
3. To achieve your goals, you must be willing to sacrifice and invest in extra effort.
4. My cooking ability is something I'd like you to know about me.
5. I have a positive outlook in life.
6. What floats?

Flashback!

2008-10-14T07:13:00.001-07:00

2003 was the year this picture was taken.

Our three kids were aged 5, 4 and 2 then. See how thinner I was?
Full time work, being a wife, homemaking and motherhood rolled in one was quite a feat to hurdle!

This second photo was taken 2007.

With our kids older (ages 9, 8 and 5) and routines a little lighter we have changed!

Especially the weight?

What do you think?

Business Venture

2008-10-14T06:58:00.000-07:00

Been busy lately. Hours of the day seem to pass by unknowingly. Have you felt that?
I always leave the house around mid-day for the past two weeks. My little one keeps on asking why she is always being left behind for the last fourteen days. She keeps on inquiring about the reason why I have to go out of the house. You see, she is not used to me leaving her behind for the last 6 months.I keep on explaining to her that I need to help out in the business my siblings and I put up. And that the business is also for her well-being. Eventually, she will understand. I bet she just needs time.

No. I am not a major stockholder of the new business. In fact, how I wish I am one. But the fact that I was included in the line-up is more than enough to be grateful for. My siblings are so good, they wanted me to be part of the business even if I do not have that much financial resources to speak of. All eight of us (siblings) are part of the new venture. With much prayer and real hard work I know it will soon prosper.

On another light, Inner 8 is the newest online business worth trying. It is such a formidable one on the beta stage. For those who are online constantly, I bet there's no more time to lose. Visit the site and you will surely be given a good break.

All About Me Edition

2008-10-12T01:37:00.000-07:00

my legs.

after carrying myself for 35 years and three babies in succession: veined

1. What is your idea of a perfect relaxing day?
Beach. Sand. Massage.

Bonfire at night, perhaps. Me, clad in a two-piece swimsuit! (Dream on...)

2. Your first real boyfriend/girlfriend,… do you look back fondly or do you get the shudders? Where are they today?

He is my ever handsome hubby now...

3. What was your favorite subject in school?

Social Studies, I g0t 98 on my card for this.

4. What is your favorite show on TV? Favorite book? Favorite song?

TV Show: House M.D.

Book: Love Story by Erich Segal (old, baby)

Song: I so loooove oldies.

5. My husband’s only real competition is Wentworth Miller from Prison Break. Who is your celebrity crush?

There is no one for me but Brad Pitt.

6. Since I got my first gray hair at 16, Miss Clairol and her friends are my close, personal friends! What about you? To dye or not to dye the hair? If so, what color is your natural hair (if you remember!) and what color do you dye it?

I have never ever dyed my hair. It is jet black and long.

Wanna join? Here.

Sweet Reward

2008-10-08T07:20:00.000-07:00

One day, I was so beaten when I came home .

I rewarded my dog-tired body with this moist, creamy cake...

Guess what is its name?
"Better Than Sex" cake.
No kidding.

It's yummy, creamy and truly rewarding, after a day's hard work.

You agree with its name?

Chosen One!!!!

2008-10-06T17:12:00.000-07:00

Nuffnang chose my blog. I am included in the list of 68 blog winners.

Told you, ain't life grand? Let's toast to this!

Here:

Hello Nuffnangers!

It’s been a month since we’ve started this contest, and the time has come for us to finally announce the lucky 68 Nuffnangers who will get the prizes.

We were pleased to have received a lot of responses from you guys, and we here at Nuffnang also had fun reading all your entries, and seeing how creative you all can get while still managing to meet all the requirements needed for it to be valid.

So without further ado, the official 68 winners are:

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www.pakjwan.i.ph

www.pinoyambisyoso.com

www.council.ph

Friday Fill-Ins and Some More

2008-10-03T06:59:00.000-07:00

1. October is my most anticipated month of the year. It is the month when I turn a year older and hopefully wiser.

2. The thoughts of leaving my kids and family behind because of my sudden death scare me but I do not entertain such thoughts that often.

3. Leaves are falling all around, it's a sign that a new season has come and life completes its cycle one more time.

4. My favorite horror movie is none because I am not a fan of horror movies. I watch films to be entertained not to be terrified, plus the fact that I hate having nightmares afterward.

5. Family time, relaxed moments with hubby, laughter and kids' antics = good memories.

6. It was a dark and stormy night when I was bored and thought of searching online that was the time I found out about casino.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to time to sleep early after work, a good dinner with the kids' chatter and tomorrow my plans include doing the laundry and baking cookies and Sunday, I want to rest, witness a baby being Christened and attend the mass together with my whole family!

35

2008-10-01T18:14:00.000-07:00

I am 35. Today.

So, how is it to be 35?

Let me count MY ways:

mother of eleven, nine and six years old girls - who all talk like 35.

wife for 12 years to a good husband - who goes to Mass as often as he can, if not everyday. yes, ladies he is a rare species.

daughter to a strong woman.

has been an educator for almost 13 years.

sister to seven siblings far richer than I am ( lucky me, right?)

blessed with God's unfailing grace every single day to live with purpose

blogger for almost 2 years...

I am blessed.

We all are.

SO what is missing for me? Fat bank account. LOL. I still have years ahead of me to settle that.

But what I am blessed with now, I am more than thankful.

God is good. All the time.

Ain't life grand?

1st image from therosenblog.blogspot.com

Tag Train 8

2008-09-30T08:29:00.000-07:00

Welcome aboard!

1. Complete this sentence: THE WORLD NEEDS…
to know GOD and pray more to HIM.

2. If you were a crayon, what color would you be and why?
Orange, I just want to be a combination of yellow and red, not a solid color.

3. Favorite day/s of the week?
Friday, because there are no classes the next day and Sunday because I feel relaxed with my family!

4. How many spam mails do you get in a day?
Around 15

5. When was the last time you cried?
Two weeks ago?

6. Are you conscious of how you look?
There times when it would hit me suddenly, but most of the time no.

7. Last movie you’ve watched? Did you like it?

Can't remember now

8. Where was the first time you ever saw the person you like at the moment?
Online, where I was browsing about vehicle reimbursement company .

9. Describe the shirt you are wearing today.
Old, black body fit with pink beads.

10. Do you tell your parents everything?
Nope, most of the time only those things they ask me about or most of the time those which are positive so as to enliven them.

See You!

2008-09-30T08:26:00.000-07:00

I haven't been dropping entrecards that often lately. Days have passed and i haven't had the chance to drop by to other blogs to comment or just visit. Been quite busy with other things lately. And I love the new routine I have right now. It is something out of the usual. I promise to give you a dose of my presence one of these days. See you around!

Career Or Debt Collection?

2008-09-30T07:27:00.000-07:00

As I turn 35 this month, I have been thinking long and deep. Should I shift careers from teaching to something else, I badly need to decide which path. Or else I will find it too late to shift from my 12 year teaching career to something more interesting or financially rewarding. It is difficult to think that what has transpired for the last twelve years in my professional life will just be part of history. However, I do not like to be stuck with something or with a superior which makes me miserably unhappy. I have to move out or forever dwell in my misery.

Moreover, having three kids and never-ending bills coming, I have to help my husband with our finances also. It is a fact of life that one has to work for his or her own keeps, otherwise debt collection will be constant in our household. As the kids grow older, the needs are also expanding. It is a blessing that our kids are so used to living frugally, that they do not ask for material things constantly. Had it been the other way around, I would not know what to do.

Decision-making is truly not an easy task, especially if lives depend on me.

Tears

2008-09-28T05:06:00.000-07:00

School grades are NOT that meaningful to me. Important, yes. Significant - partly. Grades tell only half of the story; which is the learning process. What is written on the card does not indicate the entire learning that took place. Ironic, it may sound because I am an educator.

My eldest girl's grades were not that impressive last quarter. Knowing her, I am convinced she could have done better. Knowing her, I know she has learned more than what her card indicates. Had I been a grade conscious parent, I would really be disappointed. Hubby was the one more dismayed.

So hubby and I talked to her. The goal was not to pressure her to do better or bring home good grades. The idea was to ask her if she was contented with what she got. Bursting into tears, she said no and apologized to us. And that she wanted better grades next time. We asked her if she wanted our help and she said : yes. Thus, the three of us schemed a plan to help her improve her performance next quarter.

I told her: "Along the way we will be disappointed, dismayed or frustrated with some of the things that you do, but we will always LOVE you as you are."

How about you? Do you talk to your kids this way, too? If not, how do you do it?

The More About Me, Me, Me Meme

2008-09-27T08:16:00.000-07:00

Got it here

My favorite age: 16

My best friend(s): Dr. Joy G.

My celebrity crush: Brad Pitt alone.

My defining characteristic: very persistent

My most evil moment: wishes to forget, i am a good girl now.

My favorite food: potato salad and moist choco cake

My grossest injury: none...hopefully this stays the same

My biggest hatred: dishonesty and hypocrisy

My most illegal activity: la, la, la,

My need for justice: hmmm...

My most knowledgeable field: wiping babies' noses, reinventing recipe and sorting laundry

My life’s goal: to please God alone.

My mother’s influence: strength and relaxed personality

My nerdiest point: do i have this?

My oldest memory: playing under the heat of the sun with my sisters

My perfect date: always with the hubby

My unanswered question: who wrote the book of Genesis?

My random fact: I have no concrete plan

My stupidest decision: not pursuing my Master's degree

My favorite television show: Gossip Girl

My style of underwear: something soft and comfortable

My favorite vegetable: eggplant

My weakest trait: I have no concrete goals

My X-men power: Wolverine's strength

My strongest yearning: To raise God-fearing and successful kids

My moment of Zen: none

Good News, Good Prizes!

2008-09-25T16:47:00.000-07:00

Do you watch the news on TV? Heard of any good news lately? Got some nice juicy update to lift the spirits of those who are blue over economic downtime and crisis? How I wish there are more good news than depressing details about how the economy is doing, every day.
Let's have more fun. Here is how to have more good news - just click these words: SportsVids.
For sure there are more good tidings that will be brought about by these words. Let the thought of winning the chance to own a new Xbox 360, fresh and crisp tickets to Michigan vs. Penn State, for Saturday, October 18, 2008 plus the much coveted $100 Gift Certificate from Dick's Sporting Goods lift your spirits!
This is for September contest. It requires you, me and all our friends to sign-up as SportsVids members so we can be able to participate. Just go over the website and we will be presented with specific contest instructions . So easy to do right?
Another way to win those prizes is to send the link to all your friends, family, acquaintances and even enemies so they can log on to the site. Every time a unique person visits the link and open the SportsVids site, your account gets a point. At the end of September 2008, the top three users with the most referral points get to win and take the prizes.

Sugar Overload.

2008-09-25T02:29:00.000-07:00

The yummiest Pandan cake on the planet was ravaged in the household last 23rd of September. It was supposed to be topped with 35 candles, but the birthday celebrator found them too many to grace this round cake.

Sugar overload is a hyperbole. The cake was yummy and aromatic without being too sweet. With yema (milk candy) filling it was suited enough for someone who now dances in midlife - the husband.

Yes, the noise of three rowdy girls with non-stop chatters in between mouthful of cakes bearded with icing is not an exaggeration.

Happy birthday, husband.

Right Age To go To School

2008-09-24T07:57:00.000-07:00

Arlene, thanks for this tag. As a seasoned educator, i will answer this based from almost 14 years of teaching experience.

–start copy–

RULES:

1. Add your blog to the list. If you’re keeping multiple blogs, it’ll be fine if you add them all up and just post your answers in one of those blogs.
2. IMPORTANT: kindly get back to me [MAICEL] so i will be able to visit your sites, read your answers and include you in the master list.
3. Please do copy from Start to End.
4. You may tag as many online friends as you please.

Copy this Participants List:

Simple Delights / Motherhood in a Nutshell / 3 for 100 / All About Me / Living A’La Mode / A Mother’s Journal / My Life, My Journey / Chismis Today / Techicardia / Small and Simple Things / My Notebook / Glossa~licious/ A Great Pleasure/ Also Mommy/ Both Sides Now / Life is What we Make it/
Hailey's Beats and Bits

Do you have kids?

Three girls!

How old are they?

- 10, 9 and 6

What do you think is the ideal age for the kids to be sent to school?

5 is the best time because this is the age when the child has more or less formed a self-concept from the nurturing of the home. Independence can be taught as well as self-help skills are present already.

Would you consider sending your 3-year-old toddler to school?

No. Especially not in the traditional schools where paper-pencil and teachers' chalk-talk happen. This way is another word for PUNISHING the child! Three-year-old toddlers do not even know what school is.

Explain your reasons.
Is there any other reason why they should be in school at this early age? I believe none. Nothing, really. Before the age of five, kids are usually immersed in parallel play and less of collaborative play or involvement in social circles.

It is the parents who want them to be cognitively advanced, sociable and all those things; which can sometimes be a pressure on the part of the kids. In reality , kids should be playing , be more free , exploring and having fun in the most unstructured way under the nurturing parents, not in the pressured, competitive and skills-driven environment.

After all they will be children only once, so why force them in an adult world?

Triple Treat to Beat the Bulge

2008-09-24T07:51:00.000-07:00

Beat the bulge before it beats you. Loosen the pounds and be happy about it. Easier said than done, right? However, that is not anymore the case with XFLOWSION. Read on and you will find out. It has become "easier said and easiest done" now! Let me tell you how.

XFLOWSION is a three in one workout that will benefit your body. It is triple the fun with combination of dance, power yoga and martial arts moves. It is such a hit to celebrities in Hollywood because no less than celebrity trainer Eric Paskel brings out the best curves and shapes to hotties bodies! With the combination of varied, constant moves bodies get to be sculpted in no time.

Every day I read online and from prints how difficult it is to loose pounds when one does not enjoy the routines of exercising at all. So, for sure this will bring a revolutionary way to treat ourselves to loosing weight: to have more fun and loose more weight!

Stop the boredom of our usual exercise routine. It is time to get off the "more of the same" method of exercising. The only way to loose that bulge is to have more fun with XFLOWSION.

Where's the Party?

2008-09-20T07:34:00.000-07:00

My kids attended a cousin's costume (birthday) party. Each kid who attended the party dressed up as his or her chosen anime character. What can I say? They had a blast!

My second girl, Hannah (as Kagome) in green, my niece Dap, the birthday gal (as Sango) and my little one Erika in purple (as Ino).

My Erika (as Ino) - striking a pose here with her Ate Hannah (as Kagome) watching.

One more pose for her with a matching umbrella.

Kagome, Inuyasha (my nephew Bubuy) and Sango (birthday gal Dap) pose for the camera!

My eldest girl, Madel, came dressed as Sakura. She is with another cousin, Ayed. Meaner looks guys, please..

On the hindsight as a parent, attending parties is one good way for kids to learn how to socialize. Be it taking turns in getting goodies, participating in games or communicating with other people in the party, deciding which food to partake or practicing proper table manners - kids have a venue to master their social skills.
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Parenting Manual Needed (Part 5)

2008-09-17T23:20:00.000-07:00

Scene 1: Mom and kids watching the news. Apparently, the news on child abuse is so rampant that social welfare steps in to deal with the issue seriously.

Kid 2: Why are the parents being questioned about their kids?

Mom: Well, they have to answer the questions of the authority.

Kid 2: About what, Mom?

Mom: Regarding the fact that they let their kids work at such young age. It is against the law.

Kid 1: Really? Why?

Mom: Because they are supposed to be playing, having fun and not working. Kids have rights, you know.

Kid 2: So why aren't you being asked, too?

Mom: And why should i be asked?

Kid 2: You always tell me to get you a glass of water or order us to ALWAYS fix our bed in the morning. Are those not part of that law?

Silence.

Scene 2: Silence. The most rare moment in the household happens.

My Results

2008-09-15T07:14:00.000-07:00

Free IQ Test by QuizRocket.com fun tests!
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Tried this one. This shows my results. I wonder how exact this test can be...

5 Minutes for me, Lifetime for the Environment

2008-09-14T17:52:00.000-07:00

The use of plastic bag, is what I am referring to.

That is why when I buy 3-4 items in the convenience store, I usually refuse to accept a plastic bag to go with my purchased items. What's 5 minutes, anyway? That's such a short time for discomfort, right?

I am not a hardcore environmentalist, but simple steps as such I believe will definitely matter when multiplied every time I grab grocery items. Imagine: if every household in every street, everyday and every year will do the same...boy, we are giving our kids a better earth!

Simple acts of kindness to our planet can definitely go a long way...for our children!

Got something to share?

image from www.grittybits.com

Friday Fill-Ins

2008-09-12T05:20:00.003-07:00

And...here we go!

1. I enjoy baking, cooking, staring at babies and challenging conversations.

2. Digiscrapping and learning FLASH program are some things I wonder about often lately.

3. In your heart, you knew that partly giving up a career is a major decision.

4. Take stroll, add a little freshness to my day and I end up with a refreshed spirit.

5. Life has gifted me with an amazing family.

6.Taking a weekend off is an instant vacation.

7. And as for the weekend, I like to go to an outing, tonight I’m looking forward to nicer TV shows, tomorrow my plans include laundry and more cooking and Sunday, I want to be in church with my whole family!

It's Nuffnang, for Me!

2008-09-12T04:56:00.000-07:00

What's up? What's new?

A lot.

I have finally signed up and mighty proud of it. Guess what is it? Nuffnang Philippines: Asia's First Blog Advertising.
It is actually so easy to sign up for www.nuffnang.com.ph .You just have to click the link of www.nuffnang.com.ph and follow the process with no sweat. There are actually a lot of perks when you join it. Aside from earning from the ads posted on your blog, there is so much more. Statistics and blog analytic come free so you get updated about recent facts about your blog.

Join the newest and hippest community in blogosphere, where you and your blog will earn, learn and truly belong!

Friday Five

2008-09-12T03:27:00.000-07:00

Who lets you have your way more than you should?
+ Always the husband. Forever the husband. LOL.
According to the cliche, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but what’s the way to yours?
+ Wait...Trips? Vacations? Clueless...Stimulating conversations fascinate me though.
What’s something that should have been put away but hasn’t been?
+ Old clothes that still fit, old outdated shoes, old old pillow cases.
When did you last weigh yourself?
+ Six years ago? I do not weigh myself...I seldom think of my weight.
What do the cops in the donut shop say?
+ Ha? No clue, here.

Parenting Manual Needed (Part 4)

2008-09-10T00:28:00.000-07:00

Cast of Characters:

Mom (me)
Kid 2 (my 9 year-old)
Kid 3 (my 6 year-old)

Kid 2: Hey Mom, do you know that whales are mammals and they are not hatched as eggs when they are born?

Kid 3: Really?

Mom: Where did you get that information?

Kid 2: It's here in the book that I am reading. And do you know that even if they live in the water, they cannot breathe underwater? They need to get to the surface just to get air.

Kid 3: Okay...

A few moments of silence...

Kid 3: If whales cannot breathe underwater, then why do they live in the water? Shouldn't they be on land like us?

Whooa.

Dead silence.

Now, it is time for the Mom to research what in the world is the grand Purpose of whales underwater!

Oh man, I should have taken a doctorate in Marine Biology before having this kind of kids.
LOL.

What's your probable answer?